Oct 07 2008

Child’s Toy can affect his future


by Wendy Tsao

The dream of any mother is to see her children grow up healthy both mentally and physically. A good mom feeds her children low calorie healthy food to prevent obesity, encourage them to practice sports to keep their bodies athletic and study to graduate top of their classes.

Nothing is more rewarding for a mother than a smile on her child face while he receives a toy or visits the toy store to pick up his toy. Many of mothers today neglect the idea that we are putting deadly substances in our children hands and most ironically pay for it when pay them toys made of poisonous and harmful materials.

Mothers should take extra care and read the back of any toy box to know what it is made of and the age suitability for their children. Many mothers have elected to buy soft toys for their children to overcome this worries and feel safer about the soft toy their children take to bed.

Children get emotionally attached to their soft toys during their early ages. In a child mind, Soft toy provide company during dark nights and a friend he can always talk to when everyone else isn't there. You can easily spot a happy smiley face on the toy store hugging the new soft toy his mammy just bought him.

Imagine that your child happiness can be doubled just be a simple idea "Transform child drawing into soft toy ". Children like to draw and when they don't find papers they use the walls. Drawing mean fun for children so why not let them have fun and get rewarded for doing it by receiving a soft toy that is exactly a copy of their drawings.

Children always have a special person or animal that they like to draw. These characters may be something real or anything out of their imagination. It is always a good idea to transform these characters into a soft toy

Give your child a set of colored pencils and a piece of paper and let him draw what ever they like or simply go to your fridge and pick up the drawing your child gave you on your birthday or in Christmas and just send it to childsown.com. At childsown.com we transform your child drawing into soft toy with the exact same details and fabrics as your child imagined and drew. The soft toy fabrics and fill are made of 100% safe materials that ensure sweet dreams for your child.

Share unforgettable moments with your child and put a smile on his face by transforming his dream drawing into soft toy sealed with I love you kiss.

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Oct 01 2008

Why children don’t outgrow toys of sentimental value

by Wendy Tsao

"NO! I want to keep that one!", said my six year old grabbing an old, somewhat grubby stuffed toy out of my hands. It was the day before our garage sale, and my son and I were going through his closet together to clear out the toys which he had outgrown, and needless to say, I was quite surprised to see which toys he insisted on keeping even though he didn't play with them anymore.

Psychologists have recently confirmed that children do become emotionally attached to cuddly toys, blankets and even smelly old scraps of material because they intuitively believe they possess a unique essence or life force. Studies showed that children will prefer their cherished comfort objects over duplicates apparently identical in every way. From a very young age, children will invest in such objects intangible qualities that cannot be reproduced. The child's sentiments to this object is similar to that of an art enthusiast who values the original over a copy that is identical in every way.

In an experiment, children were shown a "magic" box which reproduced objects. After seeing the machine replicate a green block, they were then asked if they would like their comfort toy reproduced. Of the 22 children asked, four stubbornly refused to allow their object to be copied, and of the 18 that allowed their object to be duplicated, only 5 opted to take the copy. (Afterward, the children were shown how the illusion worked, and they then understood that they went away with the original. )

This experiment showed that children believe that in addition to the physical properties of their objects, there was some other quality to them that could not be copied. This intuitive reaction to cherished objects exists in children as it exists in adults who value fine art originals.

Some toys are sentimentally valued as much as, or even more than, fine art pieces. They are kept for life, and even passed on to the next generation. These special toys can be instrumental in the life of a child. They instill a sense of identity, and a value for relationships. Most of us can remember particular gifts or toys that we received as children and the excitement they caused. Children are also able to recognize that something is precious, a thing to treasure and be careful with. It can be argued that in handling precious toys, children learn the need for physical restraint.

So, yes, children can get attached to their toys. They see their favourite toys as a stable part of their environment, and derive much comfort from that. They are also aware, in various degrees of understanding, that these toys were given with love from parents, relatives, or friends. They probably don't notice whether the gifts are hand-me-downs, purchased or hand-made. What probably matters most is whether the child experiences joy in the toy, and thus begins a relationship with it. Inevitably, some toys are more valued than others. Favourite toys or comfort toys serve to shape the child's understanding of what it is to be loved and cared for. These are all valid human yearnings worth bearing in mind the next time you find your child unwilling to part with the "best" of his old, favourite toys.

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Sep 27 2008

Teach your child to give using a stuffed toy

by Wendy Tsao

Stuffed toys are child's most precious possession. A child creates special emotional bondage with his stuffed toys which makes it very difficult for him to give away. Stuffed toys are your child imaginary friend whom he can talk to when everyone else isn't present.

Many mothers have expressed concerns that they hear their children talking to their favorite stuffed toys, hugs them when they get back to school and take them to bed with them. What they don't understand is that their children are absolutely physiologically healthy and any thing else isn't. A normal healthy child opens up his senses to the world and communicates in his own way with his surrounding which might be difficult to understand from an adult point of view.

This emotional bondage that a child creates with his stuffed toy makes it very difficult for him to give away. It is a common word that we hear coming out of a child when someone asks him to give his stuffed toy "No, This is mine, Mammy got it for me". Mothers get troubled by hearing these words as they think that their children are growing selfish and not giving. They try to force their children into giving things away which creates a very harmful emotional experience in the child mind that might affect his whole future.

The right way to teach your child to give his old stuffed toys is to convince him that there are other children out there who are unprivileged as he is and they need these old toys more than he does. It is always a good idea to take your child to see other children in orphanages or children in poor neighborhoods where their parents can't get them any toys to play with to understand that they really need his old stuff. Invite your child to deliver his stuffed toys to these children and play with them.

Many might think that this would be a hard emotional experience for a child to pass but they are absolutely wrong. This experience will teach your children how to appreciate what they have and work hard to keep it. Also it strengths their social commitment to the society and make them effective contributing citizens.

It is always a good idea to reward your child for his good deeds by taking him to the toy store to get a new gift of his choice. This new toy will motivate him to do more good things to get new things. These actions will repeat until giving is a habit in your child behavior and will remain in his mind as a wonderful experience that gives him a good feeling of self esteem.

In order to make this experience more exciting for your child, Add some "I am proud of you son" flavor to the gift you give to your child after giving away his old toys. Transform your child drawing into stuffed toys adding a nice photo of you and your family and nice words to tell your child how much you love him. Rest assured that your child will always remember this stuffed toy for the rest of his life and it will be the first thing comes up in his mind when he does a good thing along with your sweet voice saying to him "That's my baby".

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Sep 26 2008

Designing educational stuffed toy for your child

by Wendy Tsao

For years, parents are using stuffed toys as an educational tool to teach their children good manners, habits and deliver some educational message to their children. Stuffed toys stimulate the child perception and take him into an imaginary world and open his mind to react positively to any educational message.

Learning through playing is a well known physiological technique used by many parents. Educating children through exposing them to a joyful learning experience is engraved in the children mind forever. Making their favorite dolls and stuffed toys talk and invite the children to integrate into the play will deliver the educational message easily and unknowingly.

Playing is the child's main job and through playing in gets into contact with the world around and begins to accumulate memories and experience whether it is good or bad. Every while you find the child interested in a toy and plays with it for a while and then throw it away. This isn't because the child got bored but because he got all the experience he needs and he is ready to move on to explore more.

Success of parents in any learning through playing depends on the kinds of toys they use during the process, the story they are telling whether it is interesting to the child and child interaction to the play process. Stuffed toys are always a good choice to be used during the process as they are made of soft materials which makes it controllable during the play.

Using any stuffed toy can do magic in your child behavior while playing. Being a good boy like Mr. Bear or a princess like Princess Fiona is always a dream for many children who received the educational message from their parents.

Imagine the effect that a custom made stuffed toy made of your own child drawing can do to your child behavior. Every child in the world likes to draw. He uses his imagination to create a fantasy character or draw animal or a person. He always draws the same image over and over again. Imagine the effect of this imaginary friend of your child would have if it was personalized and participate in learning through playing process.

Your child will react positively to stuffed toys made of his own drawings. Even by just transforming his drawing into stuffed toy, you are giving your child an educational lesson that nothing is impossible and the sky is the limit.

Stuffed toys made of children drawing have special emotional influence of your child behavior. If you were able to create a learning experience using these stuffed toys, your child will unconsciously react positively to the message and you can really make a huge difference.

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Sep 26 2008

Transform your child drawing into doll

by Wendy Tsao

Creating a unique masterpiece takes a lot of time and effort. You have to choose a subject, select the materials and find your own inspiration to bring that masterpiece to life.

The same process applies at Child's Own Studio, but what makes this art really extraordinary is the collaboration between the artist and a child. What makes it even more interesting is that the child made the drawing himself. So how do we turn a kid's drawing into a doll? This is how it all happens:

Provide markers, crayons or color pencils and blank sheets of paper for the child to draw on, and let the child draw whatever he wants. It can be a person, an animal or object. A child's imagination is endless! You might also already have a drawing that he did a while ago, and which you feel captures his childhood perception wonderfully. You can choose to send in that one.

Once we receive the drawing, we begin the process of crafting the plush toy, by selecting the fabric that we feel would work best with the drawing. Whether it's silk or cotton, cashmere or synthetics, prints or solids, you can always be assured that the fabric is of the best quality.

The soft toy, custom made from your child's drawing, is filled with hypoallergenic polyester fiberfill. We then add the details which are in the drawing, such as eyes, nose, mouth, flowers, jewelry, and so on, and we try to stay as accurate as possible. If the child drew a dog with pink polka dots, we'll produce you one! It is as much a joy for us to create these unique dolls as it is for the child to see their handiwork realized. A labor of love indeed!

Be assured that the materials we use are non-toxic so that every custom plush toy is safe. If you have any requests with regard to the size, fabric used or if you have your own material that you want to add in the doll, don't hesitate to inform us before we start creating the dolls; we are happy to accommodate special requests!

We can complete these custom made soft toys between two to four weeks after receiving the drawing. For drawings that are more colorful and elaborate with details, we will immediately contact you to inform you of a new time estimate for completion.

Once we transform your child's drawing to a custom plush toy, we are ready to ship this wonderful keepsake to your doorstep. This is a perfect and unique gift and you are guaranteed that this one of a kind toy will be cherished by your child for a lifetime. So send in the drawings and let us create your Child's Own soft toy!

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Sep 25 2008

How and why children draw

by Wendy Tsao

Children feel the need to express themselves. They fulfill this uniquely human trait by interacting with different people, by responding to the things they observe in their environment and most importantly through drawing.

Drawing not only enhances the developmental skills of a child, it also aids in the ability of the child to express himself creatively. His thinking and communication skills are also being developed because drawing motivates him to discuss his creations. Children who are involved in the expressive act of drawing are participating in their own learning. When given choices and ample time to create, they will construct their own realities, communicate their feelings and ideas which in turn make sense of and give meaning to their world.

Children are able to learn very quickly how to use the different mediums and techniques available in drawing. They have a wide selection of tools to choose from, and almost intuitively understand how to make marks on a blank piece of paper. Coloring materials such as crayons, pastel colors, paint, colored markers, colored pencils, watercolors and chalk are the most popular choices for young hands.

When a child begins to make drawings with meaning, he or she is entering an important stage of creating and communicating. The inspiration of a child stems from the hundreds of ideas running through his mind - which most of the time can result in bizarre pictures that only the child can personally understand.

These ideas can also result in colorful, recognizable drawings of people, animals, objects, places, and so on. Whether or not every drawing that a child makes is a masterpiece, it is through this repeated activity that children learn to experiment and practice different drawing techniques that can further fuel their creativity. Through drawing, children increase their understanding of colors, shapes and even spatial concepts.

While there is an urge in parents and society to develop a child's creativity by enrolling them in art classes, there is just as much value in simply letting children draw whatever they think and feel. Children feel the most joy in drawing spontaneously, that is without any rules or limitations. The benefit of free drawing is that it cultivates within a child the independence to create images, characters and dimensions that they can relate to and think of.

Drawing helps a child to filter the things that he likes or dislikes. Through his drawings a child can set out his dreams and wishes on paper, and make them seem a bit more real. Children, like professional artists, can also draw according to their emotions. Children will produce happy drawings of their families or other familiar subjects but they can also create drawings depicting sad or scary thoughts. How can parents respond to this form of creativity in children? By simply showing a genuine appreciation through listening to the child talk about the ideas in the drawing, and by asking the child how they feel about their drawing, the parent is nurturing a positive form of communication.

Drawing is thus an important tool for very young children, by providing them with opportunities to represent intricate personal narratives and to use them to communicate with significant others in their lives. Drawing offers a window into children's preoccupations, passions, problems and possibilities. Many adults can listen and respond to these narratives and appreciate the power and meaning of children's drawings, and thus help in the development of these young thinkers.

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